This situation may have come as a complete surprise to you but not to God.  

He still has a great plan for your life.

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

Jeremiah 29:11 KJV

There's purpose in the pain, it's up to you to find it.

 And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.

John 8:32 KJV

How long are you going to live in your pain?

When Jesus saw him lying there and learned that he had been in this condition for a long time, he asked him, 

"Do you want to get well?"

John 5:6 NIV

The reward of pain is the willingness to change.  Stop living in the past.

Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it? 

I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert.

Isaiah 43:19 KJV